Nowadays it seems that it is hard for people to express their feelings. It seems people are rather interested in just having sex than in having a real relationship. There are even people who seem ashamed of the fact that they do not want only sex from their partner but real commitment and love and that is why they do not share their feelings with them.
There are some people who are afraid of commitment and that is why they find it difficult to tell somebody they love them. It turns out that sharing of feelings is much difficult than one can imagine.
And that is why we have prepared for you a list of ideas which can help you tell someone that you love them without really saying it. Here they are!
#1 Write a note
One of the first thing that can pop in your mind about expressing your feelings for someone without saying it out loud is probably writing it down. That is why if you are afraid of their reaction and you feel too embarrassed of saying it to them, you can write them down a note or a letter. There is no need to actually say “I love you”, but you can write down about your feelings.
You can also make it as a really nice surprise. There are many ways you could give them the letter without actually giving it hand to hand. You could put the letter/not next to them when they wake up in the morning, or you could put it in their bag if they are about to travel. The rest is up to you. You could simply express how you feel on a blank sheet of paper.
#2 Breakfast in bed
The next thing you could do if you want to tell someone that you love them without actually saying it is to make your partner breakfast in bed. That you could do is wake up earlier than them, make their favorite breakfast and some strong cup of coffee, or a cup of tea, whichever they prefer, and then wake them up with a kiss and a tray of breakfast.
This is extremely cute and you can be sure this person would appreciate, especially if they have the same strong feelings to you. This simple act of kindness and affection is so sweet that your partner should be left with no doubt about your feelings towards them.
#3 Give them a nice relaxing massage when they are tired
The next thing you could do if you want to express your feelings towards your partner is to give them a nice relaxing massage after a long day at work. And after the massage you can just let them fall asleep. You can also prepare them a nice bath if they like taking a bath.
Sometimes telling someone that you love them is not at all about saying it out loud. It is the things that one does for the people they love. So helping your partner relax after a problematic day at work is one of the things that should point them out that you love them.
#4 Make them small presents
The next thing that you could do if you want to show someone that you love them is to actually show them that you pay attention to their likes and interests. If this person is into some sport, or a team, you could buy them some tickets for a game and you could go together.
You could also buy them some food that they really like, or even better – you could cook for them the things they like. Basically, you need to pay attention to the things they really like and to show them that you are well aware of their interests.
Another thing that could you add to this is to actually make these little presents without an occasion. This way you will show them that you are not giving them presents because of some kind of obligation, but because you want them to be happy. And isn’t love all about making the people you love happy?
#5 Let them be themselves
The last thing we included in our list is just as strong as the previous ones. Some people say that when they start a relationship, their partner often wants to change some of the things about them that they do not like. But is this really love? If you love someone, you will love them for the person they are and they would do the same for you.
And if they have some bad habits you want them to change, like being aggressive, smoking, drinking, and so on, you could help them by loving them. Let your love be the weapon you fight them with but do not be pushy or keep telling them that they need to change something because this way you will surely not express your love, but your irritation.